How the spirits can help your life

How the Spirits Can Help You with Your Life

Last year, my dear friend, Julie, was in dire straights. She had just been dumped by another guy, a powerful Hollywood agent who had, quite honestly, ignored her and her needs quite a bit.

She came to me and asked for help. Her pattern with men had been a miserable one. She met and married a rock superstar ten years prior, and their five-year marriage finally ended when he admitted that he’d been having an affair the entire time. For her, the worst of it was that there had been many others and she hadn’t known.

How could I not have known?

Julie lamented.

I shrugged. Whatever pattern you’re doing, it is in an attempt to heal something. So there is a good reason. If you’re dating cheaters, someone cheated in your history or had a fear of it. Julie shook her head. My parents are happily married – forty years happy! It can’t be that. I was referring to her mother’s mother.

What about your grandmother?

I didn’t know her. She died when I was three.

In that moment, I felt a powerful presence. It was Julie’s grandmother. Her message was clear: Don’t make the mistakes I did.I went on to relay to Julie the message from her grandmother. She had married a man who cheated on her for her entire life. She didn’t want that to be Julie’s fate. She wanted Julie to have better.

 

I have no way of finding out if this is true.

Julie said.I don’t know if that matters here.

I said. What is important is that you keep leaving the cheaters, and your grandmother never did.

In my experience in working with multi-generational healing like this, the inherited challenge always skips a generation. If you’re lucky enough to have a grandparent alive, find out their story. Often we are playing out the healing that they never could do.

Julie made this connection instantly, but she wanted to be in a relationship. She pointed to the Divine Love Intention Candle Kit that sat behind me.

I guess I need that, don’t I?

I disagreed. If anything, the Healing Intention Kit would be more appropriate to quickly clear the remnants of this pattern.

In the reading, Julie’s grandmother gave her permission to no longer have to work on healing this family wound. It was done. She was proud of Julie for leaving a situation that was intolerable. As a result, she told Julie to find a man who would be dedicated to her.

This story has a wonderful ending. Julie agreed with me and worked with the Healing Intention Candle Kit, as well as her therapist. Six months later, a guy she had been friends with for over a decade phoned her. They had always been crossing paths, but the timing was never right…he in a relationship when she wasn’t and vice versa. This time, however, they were both free. In one phone call, he announced his true feelings for her. He’d loved her for years.

Twenty-four hours later, he was on a plane from Vancouver. They have not been separated since.

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BLessings

-Tori